It all resorts to ABSTINENCE (my POV on the steamy “Dr. Hayden Kho Sex Video Festival”)
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The issue is undeniably rampant, controversial, and HOT!Imagine seeing one of the hottest stars of today in a sex video put forth by the angelic-faced and who-knows-he-could-do-this-of-eeewness-kind-of-stuff Doctor Hayden Kho.Further allegations were out.Names had been dropped as accomplices in the dissemination of the said video.This contingency became a household topic.It had 10-year old boys rummage through the web to look for the hot love scene of Katrina and Hayden.And most especially, it had me curious to death to watch all of the said videos.(Which I did, I watched it with the entire family! Haha. BTW, my parents think that we are mentally-equipped and mature to take in that kind of stuff)But the question is, who’s to blame?Of course majority will think that I’m stupid not to realize that Hayden is.But in a much broader and lawful, and tactful perspective, there are those possibilities that Hayden isn’t the one who distributed the copies of the videos.There is the faintest idea that maybe he did those videos for personal interest only and has no intentions of making it public.But it can also be the other way around.Many would like to believe that Hayden Kho is a psychotic, sick and perverted human being who takes pleasure in making his bed partners groan with pain.But who could really tell right?At this junction, I would not like my prejudice and the fact that i used to have a crush, no, fantasize, the young hot doctor come first.For everybody’s information, it is not our concern to take part or to meddle with what Hayden Kho would like to do with his sex drives and to his partners as long as it is not know to the mass, but since it was publicized, brandished all over the internet and pirated DVD stalls in Quiapo, everybody seems to be bothered.It is very threatening, to say the least.I mean, if I had a daughter who would appear in a sex video, I would sure a s hell cut her hair till she is bald and lock her up in a dungeon somewhere…But that wouldn’t happen.I would make sure that if I had a daughter, she will walk down the aisle and give her virginity to the man she married.Because you see, Hayden is not the sole person who’s at fault here.Isn’t it that it takes two to tango?Isn’t it that the videos showed two people having animal sex in front of the camera?So basically, the sex partners of Hayden, namely Katrina Halili, Maricar Reyes and that Brazilian model were at fault too.Why the hell would you have sex with a guy if he isn’t your husband.Yes, I know it is the computer age and it seems to some girls of young age that losing your virginity by the time you hit puberty seems very cool, but it isn’t.And look what it brought them?A life filled with shame.A situation wherein you can’t even go out of the house thinking that people talks about you.And especially, the chance to become the countries sex symbol.What a shame, your private parts for everybody’s eyes to see.My former crushing on Dr. Hayden Kho’s angelic face sometimes convinces me to believe him that he has nothing to do with the distribution of videos. Everytime I remember him I say: “Sh*t, ambaboy nya. At ang pokpok ng mga babaeng yun. Kung hindi ba naman tanga makikipag-sex sa hindi asawa. Hayup na Hayden, salaula.”But every time I see him on the news, it was like my heart wants to believe him that he’s now sorry. Yes, looks can be deceiving.But my feminist part sympathizes over those women. They have been done immoral acts which were now publicized. But it is their fault too you know.If only they knew how to wait.If only they thought a hundred times before having sex with that psychopath.And if only they had the guts to stand up and say: I will preserve my woman-ity and virginity till the first night of the wedding.So you see, ABSTINENCE is still the key.It all resorts to that ten-letter-word.It was like back to basics.ABSTINENCE…Easy to say, hard to do.Only the strong has the guts to say “NO”! |
~ by cathnirvana on May 22, 2009.

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